On appeal from Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Union County, Docket No. FV-20-001279-10.
NOT FOR PUBLICATION WITHOUT THE APPROVAL OF THE APPELLATE DIVISION
Submitted February 22, 2011
Before Judges Kestin and Newman.
Defendant, K.U., appeals from the order of April 14, 2010, denying his motion to reconsider a Final Restraining Order (FRO) in a domestic violence action and from the order imposing the FRO and the amended FRO.*fn1 We now affirm.
By way of background, defendant has four children by a prior marriage. He was living with plaintiff, P.R., for about two years when she left his house, where he resided on the first floor, with his parents living on the second floor, on Vauxhall Road in Union Township.
Plaintiff testified at a hearing before Judge James Hely that on February 5, 2010, K.U. threw her to the floor and kicked her in the back several times. Plaintiff was pregnant with their second child. She also claimed that K.U. had grabbed her by the wrist and that she had a bruise from that incident.
K.U. testified that plaintiff attacked him, struck him in the shoulder with her right hand, and was about to hit him in the face with her left hand when he blocked the blow by grabbing her wrist.
P.R. also mentioned a prior incident that took place on December 25, 2009, when there was another physical altercation. K.U. claimed that it was just a violent argument.
Because a child was involved and there would be visitation, even though the parties may not be living together, the trial judge was concerned about any contact when visitation might occur that could pose a threat or danger to P.R. After some questioning by the court, P.R. stated she was afraid that if K.U. got mad, he would resort to physical violence.
In deciding the matter, the trial judge found P.R. to be "a little more credible than Mr. [U] on what exactly happened on February the 5th and December 25. I find there was a physical altercation." The trial judge found it more credible that K.U. was not acting in self-defense with regard to the February 5, 2010 incident as he testified. He also rejected K.U.'s testimony that there was no physical altercation on December 25, but only a violent argument. The trial judge decided this on the basis of a preponderance of the credible evidence.
On the motion for reconsideration, there was no new testimony presented other than that, according to K.U., the FRO precludes him from performing job functions at McGuire Air Force Base. K.U. has aircraft engineering training, and this order interferes with his job in servicing at any Air Force or other military base.
In denying the motion for reconsideration, Judge Hely pointed out that the time from when the FRO was entered was recent and there was no basis to revise the situation. The trial court pointed out that K.U. had three options: (1) to file an appeal, which he did; (2) to contact an attorney to see if anything could be worked out since P.R. might be amenable to withdrawing the FRO; and (3) to move to dissolve the FRO after a period of time had passed. Judge Hely noted that after the passage of time, there may not be a need for a ...