This court is called upon to analyze the interface of the decisional law, R. 4:50 (affording relief from a judgment or order), and the recent statutory enactment, N.J.S.A. 2A:17-56.23a which states:
Order or portion of order for child support; enforcement and entitlement to full faith and credit; prohibition of retroactive modification; exception.
Any payment or installment of an order for child support, or whose portions of an order which are allocated for child support, whether ordered in this State or in another state, shall be fully entitled to full faith and credit and shall be a judgment by operation of law on and after the date it is due. No payment or installment of an order for child support, or those portions of an order which are allocated for child support, shall be retroactively modified by the court except for the period during which the party seeking relief has pending an application for modification, but only from the date of mailing the notice of motion to the court or from the appropriate agent. The written notice will state that a change of circumstances has occurred and a motion for modification of the order will be filed within 45 days. In the event a motion is not filed within the 45 day period, modification shall be permitted only from the date the motion is filed with the court. [Emphasis supplied]
The facts in this case are equally brief, undisputed, and hereafter set forth to permit full comprehension of the issue this court must decide.
The parties were divorced on May 9, 1988 and plaintiff received custody of the three children born of the marriage, and among other economic relief, $1,300 monthly for the "unallocated support" of the children.
In August 1988, the second child (Michael) went to live with defendant, which change in custody was never formalized by court order, but which clearly had plaintiff's acquiescence. Defendant also reduced the monthly support payment to $919 (the carrying charges on the house in which plaintiff and other two children continued to live); plaintiff accepted the reduced payments and for some ten months the parties lived with this arrangement. Defendant then moved before this court in June
1989, to modify his support obligation; plaintiff cross-moved to fix arrears for all children (for the difference between $1,300 and $919 for ten months) including the child whose custody was transferred.
Plaintiff respectfully contends that this court is statutorily prohibited from retroactively modifying the child support order, and that any declination to fix the "arrears" and order payment by this court would fly in the face of the above cited legislative pronouncement.
For the reasons hereafter expressed, this court rejects the position advanced by plaintiff, since common sense and patent equity mandate otherwise; but more important, this court does not find itself in the role of modifying any viable order at all.
First, the decisional law correctly and clearly dictates that a change of custody abrogates child support. DiTolvo v. DiTolvo, 131 N.J. Super. 72, 77 (App.Div.1974). Compelling defendant to provide support to plaintiff would be a "double loss": plaintiff would be the beneficiary of funds to which she is not entitled; defendant would be deprived of funds to which he clearly needs to support a child in his custody (with plaintiff's consent).
Second, R. 4:50 allows relief from a final judgment or order for reasons of "mistake, inadvertence, excusable neglect . . . the judgment or order is void . . . the judgment or order has been satisfied." Irrefutably, defendant's obligation has been "discharged" as a "matter of law," by the prior change of custody; and had the application been made to formalize that status when he assumed custody, it would ...